Another Man is NOT Your Competition
You being cheap is your competition with women
Many men feel they’re competing with other guys for a woman’s attention. However, the real competition isn’t with other men; it’s about how you treat yourself and the investment you make in your own life. Men are not competing with another man for a woman but they are competing with their being obviously cheap. Being "cheap" isn’t just about money; it’s about your attitude toward yourself and your relationships.
To many men are cheap with themselves and it shows.
It shows in the way you refuse to learn, the way you dress, the way you smell. When a woman takes care of herself, it shows, just like when she doesn't it shows. This is no different for a man. When a man is cheap with himself, it shows. It shows up in the way he looks. It shows up in the way he smells, it shows up when he opens his mouth and it shows up with his demeanor. Men who are not cheap with themselves invest in their looks, invest in the way they smell. Invest in educating themselves, just like women do.
The True Meaning of Being Cheap
When we think of being cheap, we often think of financial frugality. However, being cheap goes much deeper than that. It’s about:
Lack of investment in personal grooming: While cologne does a terrible job of masking odors, body oils offer a deeper, more lasting scent that does more than nourish the skin. They enhance your natural fragrance and keep your skin hydrated. The right ones like our Dark Desire, Erotic Power and Erotic roads make you feel better, feel more confident and because the scent mixes in with your scent, sends out an attraction scent that gets the attention of women in the way you desire.. Investing in high-quality body oils, priced at $299 and up, may seem steep, but consider it an investment in your self-image and appeal. Being cheap in this area can cost you more than just money; it can cost you opportunities to make lasting impressions and attract the women you desire. With women, scent is a powerful thing.
Refusal to learn: When you learn only from men you hear the same rhetoric about cheap being about money. Men are actually out here spending $10,000 and up to learn about “manhood” and “about women” but not one woman is in those bootcamps, masterminds or podcasts, and after spending all of that money, 63% of men ages 18-65 are still single, and 70% of men are not getting pussy on a regular basis. It’s so bad, men can’t even get a woman to give them a one-night stand. Which is why educating yourself on how women actually think and not how men think women think is critical. If you don’t invest time and money in understanding the opposite sex, you miss out on valuable insights that could better your relationship with them.. You will just continue to be single and lonely. A problem that is avoidable and solvable if you actually take the time to learn about women from women in places such as our Academy. Men are not meant to be single but that 63% will stay single due to their own cheapness. Cheap in once again not investing in learning about women from women and instead thinking that your thoughts are correct. Obviously, not.
Dismissal of self-care: When you skimp on taking care of yourself—physically and mentally—it reflects poorly in your interactions. The way you dress and smell matters. From the dirty sneakers to the pants hanging off one’s ass, and the nasty shit stains showing in your draws. From the lack of smelling good to the covering of stank with cheap cologne and no body oil shows. When you neglect your appearance and your smell, it shows.
The Importance of Self-Investment
Investing in yourself is the key to attracting women. Here’s how you can do it:
1. Grooming Matters
First impressions are crucial. Men who take pride in their appearance exude confidence and attract attention. Invest in:
Quality clothing: Choose clothes that fit well and reflect your personality.
Hygiene: Regular grooming routines, such as haircuts and skincare, can make a significant difference in how others perceive you.
Body Oils: Invest in high-quality body oils. A woman has to get close enough to you to smell the cologne unless you drape yourself in it. With body oils, these not only provide a deeper, lasting scent where even a little goes a long way, but also nourish your skin. At $299 and up, it’s an investment that can enhance your natural fragrance and set you apart, making a memorable impression.
2. Educate Yourself
Understanding women requires effort. Men often learn about women from other men, which can lead to misconceptions. Instead, try:
Listening to women: Engage in conversations with women to understand their perspectives. This builds empathy and fosters genuine connections.
Investing in the Dominatrix Academy for Women: This unique resource teaches men about women’s perspectives directly from a woman's viewpoint. Engaging in this type of education helps you gain valuable insights into female thoughts and feelings, breaking away from common misconceptions. 63% of men ages 18-65 are single because they continue to listen to the same men give them bad advice. If the manosphere and Red Pill rooms were effective then that percentage would be a lot smaller. If you’re going to say that a mother can’t teach a boy to be a man since she is not a man, then a man cannot teach men about women when he is not a woman.
3. Invest in Your Mindset
A different mindset can drastically change your interactions. This includes:
Personal development: Pursue interests and hobbies that make you a more well-rounded person. This can involve taking classes, reading self-help books, or engaging in new activities.
Emotional intelligence: Work on understanding and managing your emotions. This helps in developing healthier relationships.
Why Men Struggle with Learning from Women
Many men remain stuck in their ways, relying on male-centric advice. This leads to a lack of understanding about what women truly want. Key reasons include:
Echo chambers: Learning only from other men can create a narrow view of relationships and gender dynamics.
Fear of vulnerability: Men often hesitate to approach women for advice or insights, fearing judgment or rejection. Men need to learn how to take rejection. Men need to learn that the woman rejecting you might be the best thing that could happen to you. The universe could be keeping you alive or out of jail. Instead of being grateful to the universe for saving your life both in terms of death and jail, men get mad at women for rejecting them. Ridiculous.
Cultural conditioning: Societal norms discourage men from openly discussing emotions or seeking advice from women, perpetuating ignorance.
The Cost of Being Cheap with Yourself
The consequences of being cheap with yourself can be significant:
Unfulfilled relationships: If you’re not willing to invest in understanding women, you will struggle to build meaningful connections.
Loneliness: Statistics show that many men remain single because they don’t know how to connect authentically with women. The male suicide rate is sky high from male loneliness. A solution that enrolling in this academy solves.
Missed opportunities: By neglecting personal growth, you miss out on experiences that could enrich your life and relationships.
Final Thoughts: Make the Investment
Instead of viewing other men as your competition when a woman doesn’t want you or doesn’t want you any longer, focus on improving yourself. By investing in your appearance, education, and emotional intelligence, you not only enhance your own life but also become more attractive to potential partners. It’s time to stop being cheap with yourself and start making the investments that will lead to a richer, more fulfilling life. Remember, the journey of self-improvement is ongoing, and the returns are well worth the effort.